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Home Diary - Letter Writing Ways

Letter Writing Workshop

I hosted a letter writing workshop at my local library this past weekend. We had a small intimate group attend which gave us the opportunity to share in our small group. People shared the letters they wrote - memories about writing letters - what writing letters meant to them personally.

I used the framework of More Love Letters - which I have been writing letters with for years. In December More Love Letters brings us 12 Days of Writing Letters. This time of year is challenging for many people. Writing letters to people who have had letters requested for them allows us the gift of sharing ourselves - reaching out to bring some comfort and care to others that are in need of encouragement at this time of year. The secret to writing letters is that - you as the letter writer receive just as much personally as the letter recipient.

Letter Writing Supplies

I provided materials that were for the taking. This is not necessary as you can use whatever letter writing materials that you have on hand. It does not need to be expensive at all. I choose to offer up holiday themed paper and cards as inspiration. I also did this as a holiday gift to the community. Going forward it is best if people provide their own writing materials. This way people can pick out what most resonates for them and also keeps the cost down for any one person as a host. I wanted to offer up ideas of things that might be used in letter writing. In the middle of one display was a vintage holiday puzzle that I did in keeping with the theme of sending hand written letters by mail.

Letter Writing Workshop

More Love Letters - founded by Hannah Brencher has a book she wrote about the founding of her organization. It is a hopeful and inspiring read showing us that a small act can in turn offer so much care to the world. Your library can most likely get a copy for you!

Letter Writing Workshop - My daughter Emma and Myself - Handmade Hat by Emma

My daughter Emma came to join me which was a great surprise and delight! We did not plan our color scheme of clothing. This often seems to happen to us through the years - most likely not by accident or chance. I made kite paper stars that were on all of the tables for people to take home with them. I made the Christmas Tree book from an old Charlotte’s Web paperback at a craft workshop at our library the day before. We had a Holiday Tea from Harney & Sons with gingersnap heart shaped cookies for the theme of More Love. We all decided that we had such a nice time writing letters together that we will do it again soon in another upcoming workshop. Have you enjoyed writing letters in your life? I hope that you might find that you also begin or renew your letter writing practice.

I opened the workshop with the following poem by David Whyte

Everything is Waiting for You

by David Whyte

Your great mistake is to act the drama

as if you were alone. As if life

were a progressive and cunning crime

with no witness to the tiny hidden

transgressions. To feel abandoned is to deny

the intimacy of your surroundings. Surely,

even you, at times, have felt the grand array;

the swelling presence, and the chorus, crowding

out your solo voice. You must note

the way the soap dish enables you,

or the window latch grants you courage.

Alertness is the hidden discipline of familiarity.

The stairs are your mentor of things

to come, the doors have always been there

to frighten you and invite you,

and the tiny speaker in the phone

is your dream-ladder to divinity.

Put down the weight of your aloneness and ease into the

conversation. The kettle is singing

even as it pours you a drink, the cooking pots

have left their arrogant aloofness and

seen the good in you at last. All the birds

and creatures of the world are unutterably

themselves. Everything is waiting for you.

Home Diary Ways - Festive Tour
Before the ice is in the pools—
Before the skaters go,
Or any check at nightfall
Is tarnished by the snow—

Before the fields have finished,
Before the Christmas tree,
Wonder upon wonder
Will arrive to me!
— Emily Dickinson

The Farmers Daughter

Come on a full holiday season tour of The Farmers Daughter with me. A complete picture of all of the holiday decor to tempt you as well as give you inspiration for your own holiday decorating. Whether or not you celebrate Christmas time - does not matter. This festive season offers the simplest ideas from a tiny bell to hang on a nail in your home to full out fantasy decorating in the myriad of ways offered here. What I love about The Farmers Daughter is that each vignette sparks an imaginative scenario that one might carry out in your own particular home setting. A walk through of the seasonal delights is a bit like a museum of imagination. It always feels like a storybook trail - with a satisfied sigh at the end of the visit. I hope you enjoy your magical time here.

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That concludes our festive tour of The Farmers Daughter. I hope you enjoyed your time here. Perhaps you found some inspiration or a simple idea to carry out in your own Home Place. I came away with two candles and a small little bell. It was just right. Thank you for walking with me…

Home Diary - Advent Ways

Advent Calendar

A Story For You

A Journey of Joy: The Meaningful Advent Calendar

Once upon a time in the quaint town of Everwood, nestled between snow-covered hills and twinkling evergreen trees, there lived a community known for its warmth and camaraderie. The spirit of the holiday season was especially vibrant in Everwood, where families and friends gathered to celebrate the joy of giving and sharing.

In the heart of Everwood, there stood an old, charming house that held a special secret. This was the home of the Baker family, renowned for their delicious treats and the enchanting stories they shared with the town. One winter, as the first snowflakes began to fall, the Bakers decided to create a meaningful Advent calendar that would not only count down the days until Christmas but also spread love and kindness throughout the community.

The Baker family consisted of Mr. and Mrs. Baker, along with their three children: Emily, a creative soul with a love for crafting; Liam, a budding chef with a passion for flavors; and little Olivia, a bright-eyed dreamer who saw magic in every snowflake. Together, they brainstormed ideas for an Advent calendar that would touch the hearts of everyone in Everwood.

The Bakers decided to craft a physical calendar that would not only mark the days but also hold small, meaningful tasks for each day. They decorated 24 small, wooden drawers with festive colors and glittering ornaments, each concealing a tiny surprise. The surprises ranged from handwritten notes of gratitude to handmade ornaments and sweet treats, all carefully thought out to inspire joy and connection.

The first drawer held a note that encouraged the finder to compliment someone and brighten their day. Another drawer contained a recipe for Mrs. Baker's famous gingerbread cookies, with a small bag of ingredients attached. Families in Everwood eagerly shared their experiences baking the cookies, creating a sense of unity and togetherness.

As the days passed, the Advent calendar became a town-wide phenomenon. Friends exchanged heartfelt notes, neighbors shared warm cups of cocoa, and children left small gifts for each other. The Baker family's creation had not only brought the community together but had also turned Everwood into a haven of kindness and compassion.

On Christmas Eve, the Bakers invited the entire town to gather in their cozy living room. The room was filled with laughter, gratitude, and a sense of belonging that lingered in the air like the sweet scent of holiday spices. As the clock struck midnight, the townspeople exchanged warm embraces, grateful for the meaningful Advent calendar that had made their holiday season truly magical.

And so, in the charming town of Everwood, the spirit of the Baker family's Advent calendar lived on, inspiring generations to come to celebrate the joy of giving, the warmth of community, and the magic of the holiday season.

May story find you…

~Linden

Home Diary - Altar Making Ways

Ostheimer Wooden Figures - An Altar In My Home

In our home, altars are an important tableau to celebrate daily life as well as elevate holiday and important days that we would like to honor. Having a space to pause and contemplate the meaning of the day - as a seasonal table scape allows us to slow our pace and find a moment of reflection. Taking in the quiet space of a lovely altar is a ritual that offers a simple yet profound embrace of our days. It connects to our ancient ancestors as well, as they also arranged objects as symbols of importance.

A variety of materials of course may be used to create your own home altar or seasonal table corners. Items from nature are always beautiful to add to a scene. Simple materials of any kind that you find particularly relevant allows the making of the altar specific to you. As you go out on a nature walk perhaps you find abundance of sticks, leaves, bones, shells, tree back, moss, flowers and such. Of course do not take too much from a particular area and always be mindful of not harvesting anything that is on the species at risk list of plants. A list of these can be found at United Plant Savers. Creating a nature or seasonal altar that holds meaning should be ethically created.

Here is a simple altar in the photograph above that I created to honor and celebrate gratitude. Crystals provide the nature element to reflect purity of intention. Crystals can be found in many places. Find the colors and particular crystals that have resonance for you and your altar space. Ostheimer wooden figures are beloved pieces we have collected over many years that often find their way into a seasonal altar scene. The reminder and display of this lovely family creates connections in my mind of the long story of my own family. The mother and father stand in support of their young daughter. The simple and quiet posture of the figures brings an immediate sense of focus and calm.

Over time a collection of important items that are meaningful to you will begin to conjure up instant patterned memories and heart connections. This is good for your soul. A relevance of soul over the years provides an easy and comforting way into soul reflection as well as healing ways. As your eyes cast over a seasonal display that you have put time and energy into creating - all of this is taken in as you stand before your display. This can be for just a moment or for a little bit longer period of contemplation. A pause - a rest - a reassurance that life continues as you are a part of it - bringing strength and resilience to you.

You altar space is really a momentary and visually available meditation. It is a living picture of what your soul might need in that particular seasonal celebration. A gratitude altar can be this simple as I have shown. The meaning finding comes from what is important to you and your unique biography. A created altar cannot really be copied as it does not hold anything of importance to you and your own life path. It is so interesting to look at others creations of altars and corner celebrations - and many ideas can be gained in observing and researching altars. Examples and ideas can be found in art books, stories, shops, museums, Pinterest, album covers, botanical gardens and nature preserves. Here is a useful article for you to gain more ideas from - There Is Only One Rule For Creating Your Home Altar. There are so many creative ways to support yourself. Part of the fun in this creating is the contemplation, research, wandering, creation aspects of this unique form of meditation - art making - and meaning finding.

The subject of creating home altars is a large one. Books and articles have been written about this from a wide variety of viewpoints. An altar can be anything that you find as a focal point. A simple branch can be set upon a windowsill - done with intention this can become an altar space for you. A small vase of flowers will evoke feelings and thoughts that can be utilized as a focal point of meditation, enjoyment and pause. Photographs of a beautiful nature scene can provide dreaming and remembrance. Photos of loved ones or individuals that we admire can also sit on your altar space. The possibilities are infinite in this temporary art installation. I do not know of another form of creativity that can make manifest our inner lives as an outward reflection to have as a living picture of beauty.

Finally, altars are found everywhere already in your home. If you look at the items in your home as well as the arrangement of things - really everything can be seen with this intentionality. Your stove is a hearth and focal point of your kitchen - an altar to the sustenance that this object helps your prepare. The way you arrange your rooms is an altar - inside the container of that particular room. As you can see this wonderful way of looking at your surroundings offers creativity for our imagination each day. If we awaken to what is around us with wonder and curiosity - an offering of deep significance can be found reflected back to us from our living homes. If you decide to create intentional altars in your life, I believe it will offer you a rich and full palette of beauty as a helpful box of available medicine for your soul. I hope you will share your thoughts about altar making in your own life.

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Learning to Live with Change

Change is the only constant in life, an inevitable force that shapes our journey and transforms our experiences. Whether it's a new job, a relationship shift, or a significant life event, learning to live with change is a crucial skill that empowers us to navigate the uncertainties of life. In this blog post, we will explore the importance of embracing change and provide practical tips on how to adapt and thrive in the face of life's ever-evolving landscape.

Acknowledge the Inevitability of Change:

The first step in learning to live with change is acknowledging that it is an integral part of the human experience. Life is dynamic, and resisting change only breeds frustration and discontent. By accepting that change is a constant force, we can shift our mindset to one of openness and adaptability.

Embrace the Unknown:

Change often brings uncertainty, and embracing the unknown can be challenging. However, it's essential to view the unknown as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. Instead of fearing what lies ahead, approach change with a sense of curiosity and a willingness to learn from the experience.

Develop Resilience:

Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity, and it is a key trait in navigating change successfully. Cultivate resilience by building a support system, practicing mindfulness, and developing a positive outlook. Remember that setbacks are not failures but opportunities to learn and grow.

Focus on What You Can Control:

While change may bring many external factors beyond our control, it's crucial to focus on the aspects of our lives that we can control. This might include our attitudes, behaviors, and responses to change. By directing our energy toward what we can influence, we regain a sense of agency and empowerment.

Learn from Every Experience:

Every change, no matter how big or small, offers valuable lessons. Instead of dwelling on the past or fixating on what was lost, view each change as an opportunity to learn and evolve. Reflect on the lessons you've gained from previous changes and apply them to navigate current and future transitions more effectively.

Cultivate a Growth Mindset:

A growth mindset is the belief that abilities and intelligence can be developed through dedication and hard work. Embracing a growth mindset encourages a positive outlook on change, as it fosters a belief in our capacity to adapt and learn. Challenge yourself to see change as a pathway to personal and professional development.

Learning to live with change is a lifelong journey, one that requires a mindset of flexibility, resilience, and openness. By acknowledging the inevitability of change, embracing the unknown, developing resilience, focusing on what you can control, learning from every experience, and cultivating a growth mindset, you can navigate life's twists and turns with grace and confidence. Remember, change is not the enemy; it's an opportunity for growth and a catalyst for a more fulfilling and enriching life.

Practice Mindfulness and Presence:

In the midst of change, it's easy to get caught up in worries about the future or regrets from the past. Practicing mindfulness can ground you in the present moment, helping you appreciate the here and now. Techniques such as meditation, deep breathing, or simply paying attention to your surroundings can foster a sense of calmness and clarity.

Build a Support Network:

Change can be challenging, but you don't have to face it alone. Surround yourself with a supportive network of friends, family, and mentors. Share your thoughts and feelings with those you trust, and seek guidance when needed. Having a strong support system provides comfort and encouragement during times of uncertainty.

Set Realistic Expectations:

When facing change, it's important to set realistic expectations for yourself. Understand that adaptation takes time and effort. Be patient with the process, and don't be too hard on yourself. Setting achievable goals and celebrating small victories along the way can boost your confidence and motivation.

Foster a Positive Outlook:

A positive mindset can be a powerful tool in navigating change. Instead of dwelling on what might go wrong, focus on the potential opportunities and growth that change can bring. Train yourself to see challenges as stepping stones to a brighter future, and approach new experiences with a hopeful and optimistic perspective.

Continuously Learn and Adapt:

Change often requires learning new skills and adapting to different circumstances. Embrace a mindset of continuous learning, seeking opportunities to acquire new knowledge and expand your skill set. This proactive approach not only makes you more adaptable but also positions you to thrive in an ever-changing world.

Celebrate Your Progress:

Amidst the flux of change, take the time to acknowledge and celebrate your progress. Recognize the steps you've taken, the challenges you've overcome, and the personal growth you've achieved. Celebrating your progress reinforces a positive mindset and motivates you to continue embracing change as a catalyst for self-improvement.

Learning to live with change is a multifaceted journey that encompasses mindset shifts, resilience building, and the cultivation of positive habits. By integrating practices such as mindfulness, building a support network, setting realistic expectations, fostering a positive outlook, continuous learning, and celebrating progress, you equip yourself with the tools needed to not only survive change but to thrive in the face of it. Embrace change as an opportunity for personal and professional transformation, and let it propel you toward a more fulfilling and purposeful life.

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Falls of Bleeding

Pull back from the brink of war - as flames rise higher and higher
A mothers heart aches for her child -
Once a tendril in her bones - watching as might drifts toward need -
Dismantled ideas becomes a resting place for unknowing -
Palms held together - beseech the whales song - breach
Crash toward catastrophe - peril of rage cast toward arisen sunrise -
I kiss your charred cheek - lest you never remember my soft hand -
Uniformed masters find way into any unwelcome dark hiding place -
Hidden from yourself - a young boy knows he likes to dream big -
A fire of rapture engulfs misguided strength - where will you go now -
Hunted become hunted - hostile take down of self exploration -
You meant to wrap the world in ribbons of hope - now a hostage to falls of bleeding -
Lost souls - all of us tramp forward - blindly forgetting -
Your mother - misses you.

~Linden
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